One of the things that I like to say is that Rowling got it right "The wand chooses the wizard" says Ollivander in Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone. Because I feel so strongly about the connection and the magic of the wands, I will NOT ship them. Find me at my shows. Of course, if possible you should create your own wand. Feel the wood that speaks to you. Or purchase my book "The Witches Guides to Wands" to get insight into different woods.